Newness

Mood: Thoughtful
Song: Newness by Musiq Soulchild

Everything is cool...

When Love is all Brand new....

Cause you learning me and I am learning you...

I love to learn in general. I stay in the library. When I find a topic interesting, I like to research it on my own...even buy the book. It's the same way when it comes to a guy. If I find that guy interesting, I like to ask questions. I feel like alot of young women don't ask enough questions initially and then they get caught up emotionally and find out little surprises after they are in too deep. I know that a person can be a good actor but if you keep your eyes open, they will slip up eventually.

One guy said it felt kind of like a interrogation one time when I was talking to him....But the thing was I was just asking questions about him as a person...it was not questions like, "How much money you make?", "What kind of car you have?". I told him that I found him interesting which is a good thing. Plus the questions that I asked him I would answer myself.

I am a very private person by nature and very selective who my business to (I know I have a blog, but nobody is going to read it unless they find it which I doubt or I give them the link). I consider myself very open and honest once a person has my trust. I have also been told that I have a nature about me that makes it comfortable for a person to tell me things. I understand that some people are more private about their business based on their experiences and upbringing....but how do you expect me to get to know you without asking questions? I know that through spending time with each other and having random conversations that you find out new things but its just in my nature to ask questions. All I am saying is that if a women is asking you questions about you as a person, she may just be genuinely interested with no ulterior motive....