Waiting

Mood: Thoughtful
Song: Playa Cardz Right by Keyshia Cole and Tupac

So I was on my favorite forum and lurking at a thread which asked the question, Do Men really respect you if you make them wait? There were alot of interesting points made. For the most part I think that if a guy respects you and see you as a person with a good character then it does not matter...BUT then again it depends on they guy. Hell IDK. I know alot of women use the waiting game as a way to gain respect but that is not what I believe in.

I think that there should not be a time limit, it should be done when you feel completely comfortable, communication is open, and you are in tune with that particular person. From experience, I have to be absolutely comfortable with a person because it will not be enjoyable and great experience with that person if I am not. When it comes sex I think some people can detach emotion from physical...but I am a feelings type of person so I have to be comfortable. So for me waiting has nothing to do with dude, its all about me. When the time is right, the experience is enjoyable imo.