That is a good question that many people may hesistate to answer. I personally think people have a hard to answering it because they don't know how to really define it. I use to describe love as an action but now I know what it truly is. I woke up this morning self reflective and I feel a inner peace inside. To me that is love, when you have oneness with yourself, a peace from within. We are all human with insecurities but I accept mine. There may be things going on in my life that I would like to change, but I know that I will be ok. Somehow, some way...things always work out, especially if you have faith. I know that a change has happen when people who I have gotten to know say the same thing. They say that I am wise...I do think I am beyond my years...but I still feel like there is so much more to grow from.
I can say that I am comfortable now as far as putting myself out there to be back in the dating world. I have my standards and can honestly say what I want and need. I have to be with someone who love and trust themself first and foremost. Society put so much emphasis on how value comes from outside of ourselves...that we need to find love from something materialistic or someone else whether it be a baby or a romantic interest. The truth is all that we need comes from ourselves. If someone feel like in order to feel valuable you have to look outside of yourself, then how can you actually trust yourself, let alone others. I know I have no time for games, I am almost 25 which is still young, but grown enough to know better. I don't have time for little "tests" to see where a person mind is truly at. Its time to just be observant and trust your intuition and feelings. The truth always come to the light through time if you let it. I want to share love with someone because I have so much love to give. I should use that love to help those who need a helping hand also. Letting go and opening up, can be a scary thing but what is there to really FEAR? Nothing...The fear is coming from you, nothing else. The PAIN is coming from you. The LOVE is coming from you.
I love this song by omarion, I been playing this song in heavy rotation bc I feel it.
Yeah you must really love yourself before you can expect another to love you. Loving yourself is something that radiates in your walk, the way you speak, look and at. Theres nothing sexier than a woman who loves herself and is comfortable in her own skin. No one is perfect and in the journey to be better, we must love the person we are, and the person we are growing to be.
ReplyDeleteTrue Journey, you are so right.
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