Hmmm...
Im starting to really think that. Its not really about how old you are, its really about if you are willing to look at yourself and make changes that leads to growth.
I am encountering people who are young and definitely show their age. But I am also noticing young people who are very wise...those are the ones I am drawn to.
Recently I met a guy who is about 7 years older than me...We connect very well mentally. I can talk to him about anything. THat is a big thing for me because my interests I feel are unique and if I can talk to you about that, then you are special in my book. I also ran across a young guy who is about 5 years younger than me...very wise I can defintely tell. I am curious to know more about him despite the age difference (5 years is not that bad but still I am not old myself). I really don't focus on age that much but its interesting how many people do...
I have learned that if you focus too much on things that are so little (like age), you miss out on meeting very interesting people. And it does not have to turn out to be a romantic situation. Right now I just have a desire to meet different people in general...and I won't lie, I like to meet guys too...when you been in a relationship for so long...from the time u began college until the time u hit grad school...of course you want to go out and enjoy your time.
People who have open minds realize that age is just a number. Your true age is your maturity age. and your maturity is based on your experiences also and what your focus is in life. Many miss out on someone great because they focus on a number. I find it funny when women want to date older men because they feel they have more, and know more. Only to find out the exact reason why he is older and still single.
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