Tuesday, November 17, 2009

How can you be content with being single?

I was asked this while during a convo on FB messenger. I was kind of surprised that I was asked that and even more surprised that a guy asked me that. I say that because to me guys "appear" to be content with being single. I think for the most part they are content.

I personally am ok with being single but you just have those moments when you would love to tell a companion about your day. The guy went on to say somebody could brighten up your life even more...but I told him, I have to be happy by myself too...he agreed.

I then started thinking to myself do I come off like that to people. Hmm I don't know. Our first homecoming event kicked off on thursday. We had the stepshow bc homecoming is always during thanksgiving. If you are familiar with HBCUs I am probably giving my school indentity away. It was entertaining but somebody was in the back of my head and no it was not the ex. Just being there at the stepshow reminded me of them. It was good be out with my friend and her roommates. We grabbed a bite to eat afterwards and just talked.

I was thinking today and I realize that I should be very thankful for what I have and where I am at. I may be on that journey to where I want to be and it may seem like its going to take forever to there, but I am still here.

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