"That Magic"

So I am up at a early hour, but I went to sleep pretty early. I am in alot of pain...for some reason I am sore all over. Maybe I should take some vitamins. Anyway I am on youtube and I see that ihustlenation posted another vlog called "That Magic". Its of course a great vid discussing the common sense things that we should already know.



This video got me thinking about my blog that discusses loving on a expectation level. You know how people go out their way to show a person ONLY the good side of them...only for the person to end up being disappointed in the end bc things are not what they seem. We have all experienced this on some level. We all set ourselves up for that disappointment in a way also.

My most recent experience was over the summer. I set myself up for that shit. I was highly disappointed to say the least and I try not to think about it for too long bc I get mad...lol. Despite the situation though, I don't hate the person, I actually would accept them with open arms. I have nothing but love for them and would accept them flaws and all.I have learned that its important to just see things for what they are. Although its wrong to decieve or only show what you want to see, society kind of set it up that way. The society is set up to make us focus on how others percieve us.

What drew me to that particular person was more than just how they looked, but I could not deny how attractive this person was. But I was taught another lesson on how looks definitely do not matter. The physical part of you is just that the physical. So many of us get caught up in the physical part of life that we forget about our soul, the higher self, our intuition.

So that is one of the major reasons why relationships fail. We chose to disclose important information about ourselves because we want the person to see what we want them to see. I say this with seriousness. I want the truth, don't sugarcoat anything for me. I rather a guy be honest with me but I know alot of people say that most women can't handle the truth. Well my ass have no problem telling how I feel, especially to those close to me. My ex told me that he never had to doubt how I felt about something, sometimes it was piercing though he said...whatever that meant. I remember the guy from the summer told me, "I am trying to spare your feelings". I said, "Spare my feelings(in a WTF way)? I just want to know the truth." I want the truth even if it hurts, even if my pride gets bruised. But I understand that the truth is sometimes hard to swallow. But it would not be hard to swallow if we all just accept things for what they are.